Stress! 🙁 Who needs it? Not me. Stress is another one of those things that you cannot experience simultaneously as Joy. Stress is a Joy repellent. It makes you feel awful. Prolonged stress is bad for your health. Symptom of stress that I have encountered include: insomnia, shortness of breath (more like holding my breath without realizing) tummy troubles, break outs, difficulty swallowing, and over eating. Stress sucks! Can a Meditation Challenge help?
There are a lot of things people do to combat stress. Some things are not so good. For instance over eating, excessive drinking, self-medicating, over spending and other self-destructive habits. Some positive and healthy things people do to combat stress include exercise, sex, journaling, therapy, music, art, blogging, meditation, prayer, and bible study. There is one particular positive stress management activity that I have been wanting to try, talking about trying, but have not tried.
I am talking about Meditation. The good kind of meditation. Not the Meditating to improve my Psychic warfare “so I don’t have to work for the beast” (See Dating a CAJT) kind of meditation. But I digress. I have been wanting to try meditation for a while, over a year even. I have heard people say that prayer (which I am a believer in) is when you talk to God and meditation is when you quite your mind to hear Him respond. I am not seeking to have some sort of life altering religious experience. I am seeking to improve my concentration, find a new method of stress management, and to just see what it is like.
The stars finally aligned and I received a sign that it is now time for me to stop talking and thinking about meditating and actually start meditating. The signed came in the form of an email at work. Yes good things came come in the form of work emails. Not often but it does happen. I received an email from our occupational health group that advocated using meditation as a form of stress relief. Not only did the email recommend meditation it offered a step by step guide on how to do it.
I no longer have any excuse. So for at least the next 10 days I will be following the instructions below. The basic instructions don’t say how long the meditation session should be so I’m going to have a goal of 10 minutes a day. This is such a short amount of time but I know it will be a challenge for me. To sit quietly, not fall asleep, not play on my phone, not watch TV, and not talk to anyone for 10 whole minutes every day for 10 days, ah, a challenge indeed. Will any of you do this 10 day Meditation Challenge with me??? Here are the basics:
Meditation is a way to relax and renew the mind, body, and the spirit. Meditation is not necessarily about having no thoughts; it’s about having no reactions to your thoughts, so allow the thoughts to come and go. Be gentle and patient with the process.
- Relaxed and effortless posture
- Bring yourself to a relaxed and comfortable posture, either sitting on the floor, in a chair, or lying on your back. If sitting, be aware of the spine being effortlessly extended upward.
- Release
- Exhale completely, leaving a slight pause at the end of the exhale.
- Follow the breath
- Allow the body to naturally inhale.
- Mentally say “one” while you inhale.
- Allow a slight pause before exhaling again.
- Exhale and release
- As you exhale, release all tension.
- Mentally say “and”—or some other single syllable word that holds either neutral or positive connotations while you exhale (words like “love,” “joy,” “fresh,” etc.). You know I’ll be saying JOY!!!
- Continue the cycle
- Continue the cycle in a slow, relaxed fashion.
- Remember: Mentally recite “one” for the inhale. Mentally say “Joy” – or your chosen single-syllable word for the exhale. Release tension on the exhale. Each breath is a new beginning. “One” for the inhale signifies that each breath stands alone as a new start, a new moment.
- Completing the meditation
- Take your time coming back from the meditation experience. Give yourself a couple of minutes before you bring yourself back to your regular day.
- Bring yourself back slowly and gently bring your refreshed self back to a new moment with a smile.
- Enjoy the serenity.
Do you meditate? How does it affect you? Who will accept the Meditation Challenge and meditate 10 minutes every day for the next 10 days?
Nancy Laws says
I love getting my meditation on, every morning, lol…it keeps me sane
Camesha | Mama Motivator says
I have been doing more meditation here and there. I am trying to make it a part of my morning routine.
Keisha says
I am saving this for when I get home. I need to put this into practice. TY!
Katherine Phillips says
I may have to give this a try. I hear it's a great stress reliever. I'm interested in seeing how it works.
Rattles Heels says
Thank you for the tips@ I am working on getting better at meditation. It's a journey fro me but Im improving.
Outside the Box Mom says
At my best, I'm able to meditate on a scripture I read. It's so hard to stay focused without the mind wandering (the to do list, what's for dinner, etc.)!
Ty Knighten says
This is something that I have wanted to give a try but as a busy mom, I always thought that I didn't have the time. I know that i can find 10 minutes a day to do this, Thanks so much for sharing
Stacie B. says
I don't meditate per se, but I do try to take time to pray as often as I can. Walking help me deal with stress tremendously.
Kiwi says
Meditation is something I like trying to do but I fail. It would help if I didnt do it in a laying position…gotta sit upright or you will go to sleep!
Kimberly says
One of the best reads on meditation is by Richard Foster in the Celebration of Discipline. You should check it out! Love this though!
Tanay @ Life with Tanay says
I've always wanted to try meditation but I haven't yet so I'm going to try this. 10 minutes isn't bad and we all need a moment to decompress and relieve stress.
Kita says
I do meditate and I try to do it once a day. I normally go in my closet and close the doors and put my phone down and just breathe and clear my mind. It's been good for me and I plan on doing it more often not just trying to find a moment to do it.
Lisa says
AT first I thought 10 days oh boy but for just 10 minutes I think I can do it! Great idea to reduce stress.