Joy Chasers I have a heavy heart today. On Saturday my dog Hurt passed away. I knew it was coming, but there really is no way to prepare for it. He was a really strong little guy, even a Cancer Survivor. The vet had counted him out only a few weeks ago, but he bounced back, aided by lots of prayers I’m sure. But he could not bounce back this time.
On Saturday I posted a little tribute on Facebook to him. I thanked him for taking care of us. While I took care of his food, grooming, and medical care, he took care of us. Hurt came into my life via my ex-boyfriend. My dad really took to him and when he needed a new home, I took him in largely to make my dad happy. My dad had just received a cancer diagnosis. My dad loved how Hurt would sit at his feet all day and follow him around the house. After my dad died Hurt’s excitement made it bearable to come home from work to a house without my dad. When I broke up with the ex-boyfriend a few months after my dad died and I was depressed , it was taking care of Hurt that got me out of the bed. He took care of us.
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Even after Hurt’s age caught up with him, the tumor removal, the heart disease, seizure condition, and gum disease, he reminded the sweet sweet pup we first met. He did get a little more bossy after he realized we were his forever family. But he was always happy to see us. He followed us around the house. You could always find him sitting by our feet, by our beds, and laying on our shoes.
I knew from the beginning that Hurt was an old guy and that we might not have much time with him. So while I am really really missing him right now I am also just really thankful to have had him. When we open our hearts to an animal or a person we do it knowing that it might not last. Things may not work out, or nature may take its course and take our loved ones away. But I say open your heart anyway. Hurt gave us a great 5 years. So while I am sad, I confirm, that it is far better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
Thank you for loving us Hurty and giving us so much Joy!
I'm sorry, too, that you lost your dear Hurt. I have never had a dog, but I am owned by a cat. His name is Louie, and he brings such joy to me. When my Dad died from cancer, Louie had just become part of my family. Pets do not replace loved humans, but pets bring a different and special comfort to those of us who let them in. I am glad to hear that you had some years to love and to cherish Hurt. Wish there had been more years.
You are so right that it is better to have loved.
Thanks Dana. Im sorry about your dad. I'm glad your cat was there.
I am so sorry for your loss. It's amazing how much pets can make a difference in our lives. I'm glad that Hurt was able to be with you during hard times in your life. You'll always have many great memories that will keep him in your heart!
Thanks Janelle. I am thankful for the memories.
I'm sorry that you lost your sweet dog! Dogs can be a great comfort and friend to have.
Last time I had a really upset stomach my dog crawled on my bed with me and stared at me like he wanted something. I finally rolled onto my back, and he put his head right on my stomach and didn't move. Somehow it helped me feel better. He doesn't usually put his head there, so I think he was aware of how I felt sick and he wanted to take care of me.
Thanks Julie. Yes our pets fo seem to know how we are feeling.